Your God hates me


(To Danielle Smith)

I know I’m different and I know who I am 

But I don’t know what you like me to be

And how you like to see me

All I know is that your God hates me 

Because I’m not made in his image

I’m not Eve and I’m not Adam  

But I am human like you 

Who does not accept me as I am

All I know is that your God hates me

Because I’m not in your congregation

Notwithstanding your clause

I still am in the body that I was born in

with a life that I should own 

All I know is that your God hates me

Because I’m different but still the same

I’m perturbed that governments (Alberta, USA) are dictating who we can and should be. We’re all different and some of us more that others. I know these legislators are basing their rulings on a fundamental Christian doctrine that is neither forgiving nor inclusive.

We need to accept each other and cannot legislate gender and sexual orientation. Governments do not have a mandate to legislate morality or how we fit into the world. They should concern themselves with cheaters, liars and thieves, healthcare, education the judiciary and road maintenance. Transgender and gender-diverse people are not evil and pose no threat to society. We need to treat them with kindness, as equals, not punitive legislation and judgements.

Alberta Premier Danielle Smith has invoked the notwithstanding clause for three sweeping bills affecting transgender and gender-diverse youth that were passed last year in a bid to prevent courts from weighing in on the legislation.
The three pieces of legislation respectively limit gender-affirming treatment for transgender youth, ban transgender participation in womens’ and girls’ sports divisions, and require parental consent for name and pronoun changes in schoolwhile also requiring parents to opt their child into sexual education. 19th November 2025

Fiji Impressions


After 12 hours of flying over a dark ocean, past the dateline and the equator we dove through the scattered white clouds over a lush green, hilly island, ringed by white beaches and with scattered small building amongst the dense foliage. There were no tall buildings, no downtown clusters, just scattered resorts, recognizable because of their pools, along the leeward coast. As soon as we left the plane at Nandi Airport on the main island of Viti Levu, the humidity and heat engulfed us like a sauna. We were still dressed in Vancouver garb: slacks, socks, sneakers, sweaters and we immediately headed for the air-conditioned terminal building. 

Customs and check-in were pretty standard and we moved through quickly, collected our luggage and met our pre-ordered driver who deposited us at our Airbnb, listed as a ‘Quaint Rooftop Apartment.’ It was quaint, meaning small and was on the top floor (roof-top) of a two-storey house with a view of the tin-roof of the lower storey, in a residential neighbourhood, not too far from the airport. It is clean and fully equipped including a large TV with Netflix. There is a rickety back-porch right under an enormous mango tree full of noisy myna birds. Nowhere near the water but 5 minutes walking distance from a mall. Our host Filo is a super nice woman who took care of us and even served us up a traditional Fiji breakfast: homemade doughnuts with strawberry jam and lemon-grass tea. 

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